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KENTUCKY AND
SLAVERY
Submitted by:
Sharon Kouns

The
Ironton Register September 12, 1867
A
correspondent writing from Kentucky describes as follows the
domestic life there in the days of slavery:
"Among the colored people may be found many men of wealth,
intelligence and undoubted mental and moral worth. Slavery was
never as absolute in Kentucky as in other Southern States, and the
Negroes were allowed many privileges. The reason of this will be
manifested when we consider the close relation in which the
Kentuckian lived with his slaves. He was fond of horses and the
black hostler had his confidence; they discussed the merits and
points of the horses together, the slave on such questions often
proving more intelligent than his master; they bet their money and
won or lost together, and were in a great many respects personal
and confidential friends. The pretty yellow girls on the
plantations were the master's concubines, and their children he
would give to his friends, but seldom or never would sell. The
most intelligent slaves were made servants in the family, and were
generally treated with great consideration and kindness. Each
master has his black boy and every Miss her waiting girl. As is
usually the case with the young, these body servants became great
favorites, and master and boy, mistress and girl were fond of each
other. In the love affairs of the young master the boy was his
confidential agent and tried friend. He carried all master's love
notes, and not only the answer, but Sam's report was looked for
with more anxiety than the letter itself, for however formal the
reply might be, Sam could tell how old Mistress looked when he
delivered the letter; whether Miss blushed and seemed agitated or
not; what the servants said, and a thousand other things intensely
interesting for the lover to know. Generally, the wily slave made
love to the mistress's maid, and thus the private thoughts almost
of the young girl came to the master. If the match was opposed by
cruel parents, Sam, somehow or other, nearly always managed to
fall in love with a black girl on his master's sweetheart's
plantation, and it was he who arranged the escape, and waited by
the garden wall with saddle horses for the eloping lovers.
"What the boy was to the master, the young slave girl was
to her mistress. - She was consulted on all matters of importance,
kept young mistress's secrets, told her what dress she looked
prettiest in, which one her lover liked best, and what Sam told
her young master had said of her complexion, her eyes, her teeth
and her foot. It was in the lap of the faithful slave the
warmhearted Southern girl, when crossed in love or grieved with
her lover, laid her pretty head and cried as if her heart would
break; and it was into the listening and sympathizing heart of the
black all her grief's and troubles were poured. If young master or
mistress went to school, the slave went too, and became for the
time being servants in their boarding houses. If the young people
traveled, the blacks went along and saw all they did. These body
servants generally picked up a great deal of intelligence, learned
to read and write, and are now the best informed colored men and
women in Kentucky.
The __delity of the slaves was often rewarded by the
kindest of treatment and happiness of life. If the young people
married, what less could they do than take their body servants who
had shared their sorrows and joys, into their household?" |