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OLD TIME BOYS AND GIRLS
By: Pilgrim
Submitted by:
Sharon M.
Kouns

Ironton
Register, Thursday, January 10, 1895
For the Register.
The younger people want to know all about the days
gone by and nothing can give me greater pleasure than to take a ramble
in my mind to the friends and pastimes of the long ago. Before the war
this was a far different town, and a man who left it in fifty eight,
would have to study hard to find any of the landmarks then in sight.
Business houses were nearly all west of Railroad street and the
business center on Second between Lawrence and Railroad. D. S. Murdock
& Co., J. T. Davis, D. T. Davis, Martin Gillen, Thos. McCarthy and
George Newberger did the chief business in their line and Barber &
Moxley with F. S. Wright & Co. did most of the drug business. To those
living on 5th & 6th streets below Vesuvius these stores were away up
town, while the Vernon house now the Dennison, near the Water Works,
was away up in East Ironton. Hamilton and Snyder, near the old Market
house were away back in town. The Belfont was called the Star Nail
Mill, and managed by J. M. Merrill & Co. The Lawrence now moved away,
was the steady worker because bar iron commanded a better price, but
its principle workers were Evan Williams, James Thomas, John and David
Pritchard, whose skill gave to Ironton bars a preference in the
market. Scrip or due bills payable in goods, at the store, was the
money mostly in use and though it was esteemed a hard time yet Ironton
was a lively a place as you could find in a day’s journey and it soon
attained the reputation of a hospitable town and its public spirit
could not be excelled. The only railroad was the Ohio Iron & Coal
Company’s track, which ran no further than Center station, and a
passenger who wanted to go up or down the river waited a whole day
sometimes for a boat, and because there was no telegraph had to stand
on the river front, to see when one came in sight. No one was in a
hurry and everyone was perfectly satisfied, only when some young man
from Pittsburg or Cincinnati came in on a visit and his remarks on
railroads, gas works, and water works made us all uneasy because we
had none of these things then and we voted a man who talked them a
blowhard and a bore. This was the condition of things when most of our
business men of today were boys. I do not think there was ever much of
caste among us, and one boy was just as good as another and better
too, for I do not remember anybody just now who was not made to work
at one thing or another, and the girls of that time knew house keeping
by practical experience, so that they had much more common sense than
is the lot of today’s young lady. Did we have any fun? Well, I should
say we did. The ice was marked by the flourishes of our skates; the
hill echoed with our coasting shouts. Boys would fires build on little
islands in the ponds on which the latter there were many and they
would skate till late at night, and the girls would bring their sleds
provided with ropes by which means they were pulled with rapid strides
across the ice by their gallant beaux. A game of foot ball at the
schools was enjoyed by both sexes and not a few of the staid and
dignified matrons of today, took a pace by no means slow to head off
the rolling sphere, and kick it back to waiting friends, so as to
hurry it to the other goal. Snow balls, yes they made and threw them
and many a "face washing" occurred on the way home from school. Unlike
the ranks, and rows, and solemn walks, and "hand-me-down" smiles of
today, those girls would laugh and romp, run and slide, work and play
with tireless activity. There were parties’ too, but instead of
progressive euchre, there were Fox and Geese, Jolly Miller and
Forfeits. Music and singing could be had without a half day’s coaxing
for the girl to play and the old excuse of "colds" was not thought of,
because it was everyone’s desire to please. Theatricals by home talent
were common, and there was no end of fun at the practice meetings.
Pyramus and Thisbe was once produced by some forty odd of our best
literary people, and the Union Hall was crowded by an appreciative
audience for two consecutive nights. I think that Pyramus and his
adorable Thisbe, are still living, but in different families, so it is
best not to name them now. The costumes, stage dressing, and lighting
were all done by home talent. The orchestra was a piano, and the first
selection was "Nellie Gray." Oh, those old time songs, they were not
only good music, but the sentiment so plainly sung in words would
almost make you ___ the "moon that climbed the mountain." It was the
age of "Old Dan Tucker" "Sweet Alice Ben Bolt," Suwanee River" and a
host of others, not much for the head, but full of heart and life. Go
where you will, you cannot leave behind you the thrilling songs of the
olden time. Some one sings one of them and there is chord of
friendship vibrates on your heart for him and there is something noble
in his expression, for you see his face in the light of other days.
Were the girls pretty then? Oh, my but you would say so, had you seen
them; yet the best looking were the most intelligent, and many a time
a saucy beauty would catch you napping on the spelling of a word and
she would pass to the head of the class, with a smile of disdain at
our woeful ignorance. In regard to "their costumes," there was more
work done on a pretty apron than is now put on a balloon sleeve. The
embroidery on the aprons was made by the busy hands of the girl who
wore it and if you want to know how many stitches and knots it took to
make the lace, just ask the girl who had it for she is living near you
and doubtless is making some of the same patter to adorn the rising
generation. Such were the old time girls and boys, and when the rude
blast of war fell upon them, they were ready for sacrifice at home and
for battle at the front. Some are dead; we drop a tear to the loving,
true and brave; others are scattered far and wide o’er distant plains
and mountains, while some are rearing families near the old home spot,
but over all the living, the burden of life, the frosts of age and
some sorrows and disappointments have left their blighting trace, but
in heart today we are young as ever, and live over again the happy,
bygone days. To each and all, far and near, we wish a happy New Year,
full of the blessing, peace and love of our God.
PILGRIM. |